Ral: Well it's 21 yrs. ago today, Sue and I got Married... ( notice the capital M ) My 21st wedding Anniversary.... WOW, I suppose if I had to look back on it, I'd never have guessed I'd of made it that long.... Not so much, our relationship ( Marriage ) but just me in paticular... I guess I'm turning into a optimist, cause 21 yrs. ago, I could of never predicted this..( actually living this long )( read my bio, I'm accident prone ) lol....

It's a wierd feeling, but in the same breath a good one....

Been thru the good times, been thru the bad. Been thru the happy times, been thru the sad! But all & all I guess, what matters, is Sue and I are still together. And if things weren't clicking, we wouldn't be.....

I feel so old???? But I dont' have grey hair... Where did the yrs. go???... Not that I care. As I'm still here, and so aint Sue... So I guess the only thing, that I can do, is look forward to another 21 yrs.....


And share my life, with friends & family. The people on here, ( arlonet ) surely fit into both category's..... Your actually more family, than my own. ( and sue has 9 brothers and 6 sisters) ( I have 6 sisters, and 3 brothers )

But you guys will always be more like family than my own....

( My own family, is really okay, but they just aren't as kewl as you guys are)


Wish me luck for the next 21 yrs.!!!


* And my advice to young people..... Dont' get Married. Live in sin....Trust me on this.... The only differance is a piece of paper, that will bite you in the ass, every time it gets a chance.... ( rbs opinion only)

The kewlist thing about the Anniversary is the date...

How kewl is that.... 9/21 anniversary.... todays date 9/21

Going to be a great day!!!!!! Celebrating alll the way...

*** can u tell I've been writing too much poetry lately....

Congratulations! Time flies when you're having fun and the best fun is a great relationship. Looking forward to your 42nd.

kurt...

Lots and lots of blunderanniversaryhugs to you and Sue!
Two of my favoritest people!

Congratulations! Blunderhugs to you and Sue

I'd love to see what goes at that dinner table when someone asks to pass the ketchup!!




And how does Sue feel about this sentiment?? Are you looking to insure no 22nd???
My AnyVerseAry gift to you is:
Don't say nuthin', just nod your head in complete agreement, and then walk away clean boy! You'll live to see another AnyverseAry day! I've been followin' that advice for 27+ already, and if i'm lyin' i'm dyin'

congrats............kids!

Happy Anniversary Rob! Here is a toast to happy days, good times, Little House On the Prairie
Have an awesome day!
Peace,
Lorie

you all were lucky to find each other in that crowd

happy anniversary

Happy Anniversary rb and Sue!!!!!!!

A BiG thanks all! Yes, Sue & I come from large familys, that's for sure. Coincodentially, each of our familys, are dysufuntional ones at best. ( altho our folks did the best they could do, seeing the cards they got dealt)

I suppose outta that, we ended up, with anything but a dysfunction. ( altho we had our share of bumps in the road, it's nice to know things, have mellowed out over the last few yrs. especially) Actually things have been good for quite awhile. I guess you all understand, none of us are immune to lifes lil setbacks.


With that said, we had a great day. Sue took me to my Drs. today, and I had a great rap with him as usual. My health seems stable, so that's always a plus.... When my Drs. happy, I'm generally so.... Doc Reason seemed genuinley sincere, that probation seems to be off my back. And promised them, some tough amo, should they decide to ever get on my case about my health issues, again...... ( ordering new MRI's and Dates to see a Neurologist, to get to the bottom of some unanswered health woes...)
What me worry?

After which, we went for a day trip.... Sue's been working long hrs. so some long over due time together couldn't of come at a better time... Spending time, meandering thru shopping malls, and a dinner that just couldn't be beat... ( to quote some famous folk singer )



Yeah, Arnie, Sue feels pretty much the same about marriage as I.... We concur, that a marraige certificate is just a piece of paper.... With or without it, we would still be together.... We have a long history. Not your usual one.... One that could be fodder for another book..... Sue and I started out as friends, just sharing an apt. space, when we were both down on our luck..... Having a serious relationship, or 'GETTING MARRIED' Wasn't even a thought, untill we had shared an duplex for a couple yrs.... Things just seemed so escalate.... It's been a roller coaster ride, but aye..... Whos life isn't at one point or another.... Mine just seemed to have been put in overdrive....

I'm really glad, that the brakes finally got put on life, so to speak, and am mellowing.... Becoming a Grandfather, seems to have grounded me, like no other eliment of my life....( I guess I don't have to mention, putting my legal problems, at rest, is settling also) Tons of stress, now dust in the wind...

Funny thing today in Probation. I had to think of Kurt's encourageing words... My probation officer, said, about all the paper work, doing my case... I stated, "oh you'll have an outtabiography before this is thru"! And he said "yes Robert, you wanna know the worst part about it all?" And I said "yes Peter, tell me about it"... He said " after your case is done it all has to be shredded.. Destroyed"... I was quick to quirp " Peter Can I be the one to Shred it?" Can I actually do it myself?" And Peter said" Rob if it means that much to you, YOU BET, you can do it!" And I laughed loudly, and said "GREAT, AUSOME"... And he added, " Not only that Rob, but I have faith in you, and you can stay outta trouble..."YOU CAN DO IT"... The he confided in me, he had allot of clients, that he wouldn't dare suggest that to...

So I had to think of Kurt's words of wisdom... "you can do it"!!!! Obviously I wouldn't tell him about you guys. I know he thinks I'm crazy, but I don't want him to know I'm THAT CRAZY!!!!


Laugh out loud! Love you guys.... Thanks for the smiles, and the well wishes.... It really means allot... Had a great day! Tx Again, to you all.


A Day trip is good for the soul!

Piece out/Rb

Happy Anniversary & many more! Mike & I celebrated our 20th in June. Time flies...

Hey Rb...congrats to you and Sue !!! All the best man
Sorry I,m late,puter problems...

I am way late here, but Happy Anniversary, Rob and Sue! Many more great ones ahead, I hope!