Tried searching but can't seem to find the two shows I am looking for (trying to remember the dates)...

1987-90ish? Oakdale Theater in the Round, Wallingford CT .. Arlo & Pete Precious Friend

1997/8ish? Sacred Heart University theater (or was it Fairfield University)

Trying to find setlists from these shows & nail down the date. Thank you for any help.

Wallingford, CT with Pete was August 9, 1995

Fairfield is a little more complicated as there's a few Fairfields or Sacred Hearts around the country.

Fairfield, CT was one town we played a few times. The earliest I have though, is November 9, 2002 at the Quick Center (Fairfield University)

There's a few in New Fairfield, CT at the Candlewood Playhouse before that.